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大家好~小妹今年form 2,有啲問題困擾咗小妹好耐,想睇下大家有冇啲咩辦法可以幫到我😭
是咁的,小妹由form 1升上form 2 嗰陣知道會有隔離班幾位同學轉入嚟我嗰班。因為學期初係跟學號坐,所以我同一位隔離班新轉入嚟嘅男同學坐得好近。我哋初初都係好似普通朋友咁傾下計,因為大家都知道嗰啲俗稱嘅“梗”同埋memes所以就越傾越熟,又會互相開下玩笑咁。中期調過一次位,真係好好彩! 我哋畀老師安排坐得超近,咁就順理成章咁越嚟越熟變成好朋友~
更friend之後就會開始互串,日日上堂 都傾計、鬥嘴、一齊講笑,嗰幾個月真係好開心,日日都好期待返學
可能因為同佢熟咗所以對佢有好感,佢有一次問我鍾意邊個(我有提過自己有鍾意嘅人),嗰陣時雖然淨係同佢相處咗幾個月,但係唔知點解我會覺得好似同佢好熟咁,就抱住一半開玩笑同一半真心嘅狀態話畀佢知我鍾意佢。 其實我知佢有鍾意嘅人,只不過我都想試下…當然佢拒絕咗,亦都好有耐心咁解釋佢只係當我一個好好嘅朋友,亦都唔想因為我鍾意佢而令到呢段關係破裂,後尾我同佢講我只係講笑 ,睇佢講嘢嘅態度嚟睇都好似原諒咗我,真係當我講笑
畀佢拒絕唔係小妹最傷心嘅事,而係之後我哋有兩個月都冇再傾計☹️呢件事發生之前我哋日日都會喺ig傾計、又一齊打機、story tag下對方咁。小妹開頭嗰幾日都會明白經過呢件事後會有少少尷尬,但係去到越後越發覺大家係冷淡咗😓雖然最近開始復課,因為坐埋一齊嘅關係少不免都會傾幾句 ,可能經過咗兩個月嘅沉澱,大家傾計嗰陣時開始冇咁尷尬,不過好明顯係比以前少咗好多😢
小妹成日好自責點解要咁衝動話佢知,又未分得清楚係好感定鐘意,搞到嚇親佢。不過小妹唔係想希望令佢鍾意我,而係唔想失去呢個朋友,佢同我都有好多共同嘅喜好,我覺得係一個好珍貴嘅朋友, 我而家又唔敢貿貿然去打篇長文問佢嘅感受,因為最近開始多番少少講嘢,如果失敗嘅話咁呢段友誼就真係會徹底完結
我想知道其實佢係因為驚尷尬定係想純粹俾開我所以咁耐都冇搵我…小妹因為呢件事煩咗好耐,亦都令到我心情好低落,每日望住手機冇佢嘅訊息就好唔開心,甚至有幾次一諗起就好後悔嗰陣就喺度喊。小妹真係好想返到以前嗰陣咁日日都有計傾,又一齊互串,維持返嗰個好友關係
(最後以我所知佢應該有follow呢個page? 如果你認得係你嘅話你話我知啦XD)
多謝大家睇到你呢度🙇🏻♀️小妹真係好長氣🥵但係真係好想補救呢一段友誼所以先喺度問下大家有啲咩辦法可以同佢講清楚自己嘅感受之餘又唔會失敗。佢對我嚟講係一個好重要嘅好朋友,亦都提提大家如果有咁嘅情況都唔好太衝動,自己感覺啱未必係時機啱,太衝動只會破壞關係
小妹真係好想挽救(我知我講咗好多次 XD)希望大家會得閒睇到呢篇文而且俾下意見啦~
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